The coat that outlived four apartments

A secondhand wool coat, three zippers and the quiet case for owning fewer, older things.

Mira OkaforMira Okafor
October 1, 2026
2 min read
The coat that outlived four apartments

I bought the coat in a Rotterdam flea market for forty euros, from a man who swore it had belonged to a tram conductor. It was heavy, a little too long in the sleeve, and smelled faintly of cedar and pipe smoke. That was nine years ago. It has since followed me through four apartments and two continents.

What keeps a garment in circulation is rarely its quality alone. It is the number of small repairs it has absorbed. The lining was re-stitched by my aunt, the buttons were replaced by a tailor in Hanoi who refused payment, and a pocket hole was patched with a square of an old shirt. Each fix is a small entry in a ledger of care.

Why repair feels like authorship

Fast fashion sells novelty. A repaired coat sells continuity, and continuity turns out to be what people actually miss. Friends who have seen the coat in every season remember the winter we met by it. A new jacket carries no such history. It has to earn one.

None of this is an argument for austerity. I own plenty of things that were cheap and are already gone. It is a smaller claim: that a few well-chosen objects, kept long enough to be mended, will tell a more honest story about a life than a closet of impulse purchases ever could.

Culture critic. Writes about fashion, ritual and the objects people keep. Based in Lagos and London.

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